Communication from our loved ones can be subtle.

So much happens in our life where we have interaction with our loved ones. that it is hard to know if it is really communication or if it comes from our own mind. It is just something that we know because we know our loved ones so well and know what is important to them to tell us after they are gone.
An example of this would be when a lady told me that her deseasd Mother never contacted her after she died and she was in her house cleaning it, getting it ready to sell. She was very upset about it because she felt that her Mother should have said something to her. She then went on to tell me how she went to the back door because she felt it was unlocked and her Mother was very fussy about unlocked doors being locked. She was wrong about that when she tried the handle and it was locked. She turned to walk away, but a feeling gripped her and she went back and pulled the handle toward her and the door opened up. She then knew that the lock was turned correctly, but the door was not pushed all the way into the frame. I then asked her how she thought that her Mother didn't speak to her when it was so obvious to me. She said that maybe she was looking for something else and didn't recognize it and then laughed.