spirit connection

            This was my experience in the middle of the night.  It was 3:30 in the morning and I saw a blinding light.  It was a surprise to me since my room is darkened.  I noticed that the phone next to my bed was lit up as though a phone call had come in.  The phone did not ring and I felt that it was not someone calling, but a cue from the spirit world that someone needed help.  I saw the phone light flash on and off a couple of times and I asked, through my mind, what they needed.  The message said that they needed help to pass on and that they had all perished in a fire.  There were many of them and I helped them find where they had to go and as the last three spirits left, the phone light blinked three times and then the room was darkened once again. 

            The next morning my husband told me that when he walked in the kitchen the extension to the telephone in the bedroom was blinking as though someone had called.  He picked up the phone to call our answering service to get the message and he heard static on the line.  When he got to the answering machine there was no message on it and more static.  Later that day we noticed that the batteries in our bedroom telephone had to be changed.  The power was drained.    

info about conference in July 2014, ASCS

On July 11 - 13, 2014 I will be in Scottsdale, Arizona for a conference through the Academy for Spiritual and Consciousness Studies (ASCS). It will be on New Developments in Afterlife Communications. The focus is on helping people understand how they can connect with loved ones on the next plane of life. There will be many presenters. I will be one of them. I practices a variety of communication techniques and at the conference I will be teaching automatic writing, a tool to communicate with the afterlife. I am the author of Phases of LIfe After Death - Written in Automatic Writing and Psychic Encounters - A Guide to Having Your Own Spirit Contact, both available on my web site and amazon.com There will be three groups of attendees: • researchers and developers in afterlife communications • practitioners and caregivers such as clergy, hospice workers, and counselors who help people have afterlife communications • people who fervently want to connect themselves with someone in the afterlife There is a discount for signing up early and for more information go to: http://ascsi.org/conference and http://ascsi.org/conference/IrmaSlage.htm You can also contact me at: irmaslage@gmail.com I hope to see you there and meet you in person.

Doing the best we can.

During this season we may be seeing people we would rather not be visiting with. During these times look at the person and tell yourself that they are doing the best they can. Somehow telling yourself this, using the word, "best" in your mind, helps calm down the feelings you have so that you can enjoy the day while remembering that we are with them for a short time in the scheme of our lives. I hope this helps, as it helps me. LOL

The written word.

Sometimes when things pile up and you feel as though you are overwhelmed, take a pen in your hand, piece of paper on the table and start to write. Write your fears, your happiness, your concerns and when you are done tear it up and put it in the trash. It will be so wonderful to put all that on paper and get rid of it from your mind. You are then freed to pursue things with lighter shoulders.

pain and the holidays

Holidays bring out all the things we love about it and then again there are the other emotions we don't like to think about. If you have someone who has passed on and you miss them, write them a letter. When it is finished tear it up and throw it away, making it private between you and your loved one. I promise you will feel better. If you have someone you have to see this holiday and dread it, write what you feel on paper, throw it away, making it private between you and your feelings. I promise you again that you will feel better. Enjoy your days and go with love.

A dream I had.

Dreams are one of the easiest way to have a psychic connection. When we dream we work out what we need to do in life. One night, I had a dream about a little girl about 1 1/2 years old who was with her mom in a bathroom. I was in front of them in a long line waiting for an open stall. Women's room seem to have long lines, and the little one had to go to the bathroom very much. I know this because she kept telling her mom how she had to go. I told her mom to go in front of me and there was a stall open where they both went in. And then I woke up. The next day I went to a fair and while waiting to use the restroom, you guessed it, a little girl about 1 1/2 years old was telling her mom how she had to go badly. I told the mom that they could go ahead of me and they both disappeared in a bathroom stall. While washing my hands I told the mother how I dreamed of this and because of the dream knew exactly what I was going to do. The little girl's mother believed me and I felt good knowing how dreams help us in life. Our dreams are important.

Disappointments in life

Sometimes we have life's disappointments to contend with and they seem overwhelming. For the one day of Thanksgiving, although it may be hard to put these thoughts away, let's try, and me too, to concentrate on the day and the people around us, even if we are alone, concentrate on the food, the good things we have in life. For those we love who may be too far away to visit give them a phone call and let them know you are thinking of them. Keep the faith that we are doing the best we can with what we have to work with.